Awesome Parenting

Patrick made my week!  When we went out for our first driving hour, I asked how it went at home after the first day of class, where parents are encouraged to attend.  Patrick said that his Dad talked to him.  Dad has made a commitment to his son to try to be more aware of how he, himself,  is driving, and try to drive the way he wants Patrick to drive.  He said he would be more aware of how he is steering, going the speed limits, using his blinkers, and not being on his phone when he’s behind the wheel. He said it was not fair to ask his son to drive one way when he drove another way.  This absolutely made my week.

Patrick’s Dad, Thank you!  This is amazing parenting.  If I know one thing about 16 year-olds, it’s that they have no tolerance for hypocrisy, and we all know from experience that, “Do as I say, and not as I do,” does not work.  I love that you are setting a good example for your kiddo and also keeping yourself and the people on the road around you more safe in the process.  I wish everyone would learn from your example, and I hope Patrick really appreciates your commitment to him.  I know I do.  I know what a strong influence parents can be, when they do it right.  I’m a very happy teacher today.

To Practice, or Not To Practice… That Is The Question

Reasons not to practice with your kids:

  1. I can’t believe My Baby is old enough to drive!
  2. What if s/he hurts my car?
  3. What if we crash and die?
  4. This is what I’m paying the drivers ed teacher to do, right?
  5. I’m too busy watching Netflix… ehem…doing errands.

Reasons to drive with your kids

  1. They need home hours to get their license, and I can’t bring myself to forge the sheet saying we did them.
  2. They have to practice for everything else, (soccer, piano, math,) so why would this be different?
  3. If I see them making mistakes, I can help them.   I know my kid better than anyone, even if they won’t admit it, and I can figure out what they are thinking.  Maybe they are worried about the same things I was when I got my license.
  4. I can give them some of my wisdom about where crazy people always cut me off, how stupid people are who don’t use their blinkers, where the big potholes are, and all my other pet-peeves.
  5. I really love them and want them to be safe. If I see them drive in every condition I can think of, and make them do it again and again, then I will know in my heart of hearts, that they will be able to do it correctly when I am not there.

Please practice with your kids